I have not lost any weight this week. I've splurged too much and I'm afraid to get on the scale. I have to get out tomorrow and do some exercise, just to justify the extra intake.
Back to the soup, the good news is that it smells really good. I'm having a bowl of it right now, but it's too hot to eat so the verdict will have to wait. I made it in the slow cooker and you really can't screw up crockpot food.
Macy and Delilah have exciting news. Two members of their staff, the ones who provide Delilah and Macy with food and water and love, got married on Thursday, November 11. Yes, we are very happy. We are now Mr. and Mrs. Grumpbump.
We had a few guests to our house on Thursday, and, honestly, we were most worried about Macy. She's still edgy about sudden movements or loud noises, so with everyone in the house, we were convinced she would hightail it to the safest place in the house, under the bed. We figured Delilah would just ignore everyone and go about her business.
Macy definitely surprised us, in a good way. While she was not social, she was not shy about walking around all of the new people in the house. She did not run and hide but stayed out front in her normal positions by the window. Delilah hung out in the bedroom and ignored us. After the wedding, when we got home, we thought all was normal.
That was a big mistake. Delilah might not have acted out while company was here, but she certainly let us know later that she was over us. We let her outside, as is the normal routine but she never came back. After several hours, I went outside to look for her. She was nowhere. I had Mr. Grumpbump go look for her and Delilah typically will respond to his calls. Again, no sign of her. Of course, I get upset.
Then, around 11:00 p.m., our phones rang. It was a neighbor calling us to say Delilah was at their house, which was at least five buildings away. Jeezo'man, I was relieved but also embarrassed because a lot of people have definite opinions about cats wandering around. Mr. Grumpbump and I walk over to the house and sure enough, Delilah is hanging out and talking to the neighbors. After introducing ourselves, we explain that Delilah has been like this since we've known her and we do have a collar (with our phones numbers) for just this reason. Mr. Grumpbump called Delilah to come to him and she headed his way. However, she then made a beeline to the next house, yelling at us and warning us with her tail swishing that she wanted nothing to do with us. We cornered her and I picked her up; Delilah was howling at me the whole time, definitely unhappy that we were taking her away.
I was even more upset as Delilah has never acted like this before. Sure, she doesn't always stay right around the house, but she has never before been unhappy to see us. We had her inside that night for about 10 minutes before she started howling and crying to leave again. We let her out.
I'm not sure when she decided to come back in but later that night, I woke up and Delilah was in bed with us, as normal. My concern was elevated because that next day, Mr. Grumpbump and I were gone for the whole day and were staying at a hotel that night. I called a friend of mine, who agreed to stop by and look after the cats while we were away. Delilah was in the back of my mind all night.
When we got back from our trip today, Delilah was in our bed, sleeping, not concerned about anything. I felt pretty silly about working myself up and convincing myself that Delilah was leaving us. Macy was awake and alert. Macy has so many good qualities and I'm sure that her sensitivity will wear off as she gets more and more used to us. She already is very good about sitting with us on the couch, and she talks to us all the time.
Delilah is my fickle, quirky cat, and her indifference to me makes me try harder to control her. Of course, this equation equals failure. In fact, as I type this, Delilah is out roaming the neighborhood, while Miss Mace sleeps on the couch behind me.
When our guests were here, Mr. Grumpbump left the door open and Macy actually walked four steps outside. We all panicked and followed her, calling her to come back. Lucky for us, Macy is smart and knows that the home she has means constant food, water and love. She took her four steps of freedom and turned around and came back in the house.
When we get our house, Mr. Grumpbump is concerned that Delilah will be hard to train to stay around. If we get the house we want, Delilah might just be forced to be indoors all the time. If we can convince her to stay indoors, most of the stress associated with her would be gone. I think our best bet is also to introduce ourselves to our neighbors and let them know who Delilah is. We will deal with it when the time gets here.